“Let me do it!” is commonly heard among young children. It’s their plea for independence in their pursuit of discovery. This can be a daunting request for an adult: It goes against our instincts of taking care of our children. But just the opposite is true, if we provide opportunities for our children to try new tasks, where we step back and observe, then we allow children to grow.
Maria Montessori discovered children’s natural propensity to explore and experiment as their way of learning. Yes, this often means the child may fail at their attempt. However, if we continue to support them while ensuring their environment is safe, we offer them the greatest gift of independence. Growing children’s self-confidence results in their development of practical skills and love for learning.
Families can practice the proven Montessori teaching principles at home. We can plan ways to involve children in daily activities (i.e. setting the table, folding clothes, sweeping, etc.). Also, we can identify and offer limited choices for children to help them practice decision-making skills. This way we convey a message of encouragement and love for our children by allowing them freedom, within limits.
Children are more capable than we tend to give them credit for. We nurture our children through individual respect and encouragement. Give children opportunities to grow in independence and thus fuel their quest for learning and self-development. Then step aside, and watch your child blossom.
